Parental Consent vs Parental Advice (Ages 18–25) - What You Actually Need

Getting married at ages 18 to 25 in the Philippines means understanding two different rules that can affect your Marriage License timeline. If your LCR requires counseling, secure a slot with a reputable premarriage seminar provider early so you do not miss the posting window.

Consent vs advice in one glance

• Ages 18 to 21 require parental consent
  The parents or legal guardians agree to the marriage and the LCR records this consent.

• Ages 21 to 25 require parental advice
  Parents are asked for their opinion. The advice is recorded even if they disapprove or cannot be reached after due effort.

Why it matters
The LCR will not release the Marriage License without the correct requirement. Missing consent or advice can add delays or trigger a longer posting period.

What documents to prepare

For parental consent ages 18 to 21

• Valid IDs of both parents or legal guardians
• Proof of relationship to the child PSA Birth Certificate of the marrying party
• Signed consent form or sworn affidavit executed at the LCR or before a notary
• If a parent is deceased PSA Death Certificate
• If parents are separated bring documents that explain custody or guardianship if relevant

For parental advice ages 21 to 25

• Written advice from one or both parents stating approval or disapproval
• Valid IDs of parents who issued the advice
• If no advice is obtainable proof of efforts to contact them and an affidavit explaining the circumstances may be required by the LCR

Tip
Forms and exact wording vary by city or municipality. Ask your LCR for templates so your affidavits match local format.

How to give consent or advice

• In person at the LCR
  Parents appear with IDs and sign the consent or advice in front of the LCR officer.

• Before a notary or consular officer
  For parents who are abroad or cannot appear, they may execute the document before a notary or Philippine embassy or consulate. The signed document is sent to the LCR with photocopies of valid IDs.

• Through a guardian
  If there is a court appointed guardian, bring the appointment order and valid ID. The guardian signs the consent in place of the parent.

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Special scenarios and how to handle them

• One or both parents abroad
  Have them sign and notarize the consent or advice at the nearest embassy or consulate, then courier the originals.

• Unknown or estranged parent
  Document your efforts to locate them. Your LCR may accept an affidavit of circumstances and proceed with the applicable posting rules.

• Adopted or legitimated child
  Bring adoption or legitimation documents to show who has authority to give consent or advice.

• Deceased parent
  Submit the PSA Death Certificate. The surviving parent usually signs the consent or advice.

• Parents disagree
  For ages 18 to 21, the LCR may ask for both parents’ consent or clarify who has parental authority. For ages 21 to 25, differing opinions can be recorded as advice and the license can still proceed subject to posting rules.

Where this fits in the Marriage License process

1. Gather IDs, PSA Birth Certificates, and CENOMAR or Advisory on Marriages
2. Secure the parental consent or advice that applies to your age bracket
3. Attend counseling if required by your LCR
4. File the application and pay fees
5. Complete the 10 day posting period
6. Claim the license within the release date and use it within 120 days

If you need the full workflow from application to release and ceremony, check the step by step timelines in the related guide on the Marriage License process and validity.

Frequently asked questions

Do both parents need to sign
This depends on your LCR and family situation. If one parent is unavailable, the LCR may accept the other parent’s consent with supporting documents or an affidavit.

Can a guardian sign instead of a parent
Yes if a court order grants guardianship. Bring the order and valid ID.

What if my parents refuse
For ages 18 to 21, you cannot proceed without consent. For ages 21 to 25, the LCR records their advice even if it is negative and the application may still move forward subject to posting rules.

Does parental advice delay the license
It can affect the posting period depending on local rules. File early and keep all paperwork complete to avoid resubmissions.

Smart timing and paperwork tips

• Book an appointment with your parents or guardians to sign in one sitting
• Prepare multiple photocopies of IDs and affidavits
• Keep originals in a clear folder labeled by step LCR filing, counseling, posting, release
• Align your target ceremony date with venue and officiant availability as soon as posting begins

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Quick checklist for ages 18 to 25

• [ ] Verify age bracket and required consent or advice
• [ ] Collect parent or guardian IDs
• [ ] Prepare consent or advice form using the LCR template
• [ ] Notarize or execute at the LCR or embassy if abroad
• [ ] Attach supporting documents death certificate, custody, adoption if any
• [ ] File with your Marriage License application and track posting dates

What happens after the license is released

• Confirm your officiant’s jurisdiction for the chosen venue
• Prepare witness IDs for the ceremony
• Ensure prompt registration after the rite so you can request your PSA Marriage Certificate

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